Why are guys jerks...

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-14-2008
Why are guys jerks...
Thu, 03-08-2012 - 12:21am

Why are guys jerks to girls they like???

If you scroll down i've already posted this on the guys viewpoint section but i wanted to get general comments/opinions not just from a guy...


iVillage Member
Registered: 04-21-2008
Thu, 03-08-2012 - 9:30am

I'm sorry you're feeling frustrated, missd!


iVillage Member
Registered: 12-22-2007
Thu, 03-08-2012 - 3:38pm

Missd, you're lumping all men in the same category here.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-13-2012
Fri, 03-09-2012 - 2:56am

The guys who were nice were probably forgotten.

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Registered: 01-25-2010
Fri, 03-16-2012 - 3:33pm

Link please!


iVillage Member
Registered: 03-20-2012
Thu, 03-22-2012 - 8:51am

Well not all are ofcourse but I understand the feeling when SO many are...And they usually act nice at first so you can't always tell if they're going to be jerks or not. Not until you're hooked, and then it can be real painful to let go.

Read this book called Why Does He Do That? by Lundy Bancroft...written by an insightful men who really understands what women go through. The book gives reasons why, plus tells you what red flags to look for right off the bat. I've practically memorized the book, and it's changed my life, plus my dating habits forever

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-01-2012
Thu, 04-05-2012 - 3:24am
I think that some people have the jerk tendency and some do not.. whether or not you allow that to affect you is another matter all together.. people don't change just because you want them to or because you disapprove of their actions, therefore if someone's acting the jerk around you, you remove yourself from that situation.. just because they 'like you' doesn't mean you have to hang around them