why are men so evasive????

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-05-2008
why are men so evasive????
Wed, 11-05-2008 - 8:30pm

Have been dating a wonderful man for a few weeks. He is really nice and sweet but being terribly evasive and it is driving me insane. What can I do to make him feel more at ease around me.

For example I left to go out of town for a few weeks. Called to ask for his address to send him a card

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-05-2006
Thu, 11-06-2008 - 8:35am

But when I asked for the address he was being very evasive and didn't want to give the address up very suspicious and a red flag.

When I dont text him or call him it upsets him so bad he immediately calls me.

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Registered: 02-20-2007
Thu, 11-06-2008 - 9:55am

You don't see the player in him because if men let on that they were players, NO ONE WOULD DATE THEM.

This guy is kind of creepy and extremely suspicious, and you want to date him becaaaaaause... You're both good at pool and like the same TV shows?

This guy is a pretty bad dating prospect. Something is wrong with him.

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Registered: 06-22-2006
Thu, 11-06-2008 - 5:17pm

At first, when you wrote he didn't want you to have his address, I thought maybe he had someone at home that wouldn't be too happy you were writing to him, then you said he did give you the address after all.

Then I thought about it some more, and to be honest, it would creep me out if someone I was dating for only a few weeks wanted to "send me a card" from wherever they had gone on travel, UNLESS I had specifically asked them for a postcard (I collect them).

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Registered: 11-05-2008
Thu, 11-06-2008 - 10:26pm

I have talked to him today and he admitted that he misses me and his attitude has changed since the address thing. I believe that he is scared to get close to me.