Why cant we just be friends???
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|Sun, 05-11-2014 - 10:29am|
I have issues with having guy friends. What usually happens is they will want more than just a friend relationship. So, now I have no guy friends. I dont blur the line of friends and being in a relationship. No F buddies, no kissing, no nothing. We shop, play video games and talk about relationships, cars, guns etc.
I have a new guy friend 23, Im 29. We go to amusement parks and hang out at a bars. Our first time hanging out, he made it clear he has no interest in me. Which I agreed also.
He asked one day if we could hold hands, I told him there is no point to that, No. He tells me do I know how pretty I am... I told him there will never be anything between us. He agreed. A month later, he says he thinks we would be great together, if not in a relationship then "cuddle buddies" his nice way of saying fuk buddies. I get angry and yell, there will never be anything between what dont u understand. I told him we cant hang out anymore and will have no more contact.
Another weird issue is I have a mechanic that I have known for 6 years, hes friends with my family. He asked to take me out for lunch. He asked about my bf and jobs, he says I should have a guy take care of me. He told me he thought i was a very pretty girl and he would love to take care of me for the rest of my life. I wouldnt have to work or go back to school, I could just travel around the world with him. The guy is 36 years OLDER than me. Im totally grossed out!!! He told me to think about his offer first, which is NO!!.
Im not leading these guys on, with a promise of anything or offering anything to them. I just dont get why this keeps happening: Im still with non career guy.