Why did he freak out?
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Why did he freak out?
| Wed, 01-02-2013 - 9:52pm |
Why would a guy
-you dated for two years
-who said he loved you in the past
-who just bought you expensive Christmas presents
-who seemed as if everything was going the way he wanted in a relationship (not fighting and a lot of fun!)
-who says he only has eyes for you
-who says that you are in an exclusive relationship
-who says that you're a couple
-says he loves you when you tell him first
SUDDENLY FREAK OUT (when you started asking questions about the future of your relationship) AND
then say he's not sure if he loves you, doesn't want to ever get married and then leaves you apartment (not living together) with all his belongs at your house...... within a matter of minutes?
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It's probably a waste of time to wonder "why" he freaked out. You simply need to acknowledge the fact that he freaked out and respond accordingly. Dating other men is the answer. You should start exploring other options.
~hugs~
I am not too sure what's going on...
I had a b/f I dated and I wanted to know where we stand, he had told me we had no FUTURE together.
I accepted that, it was very hard but decided I needed/wanted to move on.
He was going to give me a ring at friend's house but ended up giving it to me early...it said best friends...the friends we were going to are nice this was a few years ago but she was an ex of his, kind of weird he wanted to give it to me in front of them, almost as weird as us possibly spending the night there...kwim?...I said he could but I was not comfortable with that.
This year I am single it's hard but after ALL I have been through recently Peaceful!
Do you know why he is so against marriage?...Did he tell you where he is going?...Is he back?...Did he go home?
I am simply baffled by his actions/behaviour, and I cannot imagine how you feel...