Why do men behave this way?

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-27-2005
Why do men behave this way?
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Thu, 06-16-2011 - 11:09pm

I really hope they are men on here who can answer this question I am about to ask cause I am feeling so upset tonight, I might just burst.

k2002

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Registered: 12-22-2007
Fri, 06-17-2011 - 2:41am

K2002, I don't want to downplay this friendship, but think the problem stems from you seeing this long distance

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Registered: 01-25-2010
Fri, 06-17-2011 - 3:00am

Hi

I'm Male and I see a problem.. "I give him space cause i want him to pursue me, not the other way around"

If you want hime then it does not matter.

dragowoman

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Registered: 11-06-2008
Fri, 06-17-2011 - 10:39am

really 1 month and you are worring about this now...over seas??? wheres the relationship there isnt any. I had a friends with bennies for a couple years...there would be months that we wouldnt see each other we wouldnt talk because we knew that we couldnt see each other and it was boring. Talking and not seeing each other gets boring FAST!!!!

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-27-2005
Fri, 06-17-2011 - 8:50pm

oh my goodness. Thanks for your frank response. appreciate it.I will definiotely visit him this summer. We just need to work out the time. I agree with you Taling and seeing each other gets boring fast. True.

k2002
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-27-2005
Fri, 06-17-2011 - 8:52pm

that should be "talking".

k2002
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Registered: 08-27-2005
Fri, 06-17-2011 - 8:59pm

k2002
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Registered: 08-27-2005
Fri, 06-17-2011 - 9:02pm

Thanks for your response. yea man. we know each other but haven't seen each other for many years. We reconnected on Facebook.

k2002
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-27-2005
Fri, 06-17-2011 - 9:08pm

yea man, i know there is no relationship yet. As i said before, it is the getting to know you stage we are at right now.

k2002
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-06-2008
Fri, 06-17-2011 - 10:29pm

I know you said it was the getting to know you thing right now thats why I said what I said,...I got the impression of a realtionship reaction to his not getting back to you...hense its only a month yadda yadda yadda....you dont need to be so emotionally invlved that way at this point..go meet other men.... its good for the soul

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-27-2005
Fri, 06-17-2011 - 10:45pm

"go meet other men". that's exactly what I need to do. this same thought crossed my mind just this evening while doing stuff at home. Trust me. I need another option as i said above.

k2002

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