Why does he despise all of my friends?

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Registered: 03-10-2010
Why does he despise all of my friends?
Wed, 04-14-2010 - 11:42am

And only seems to "like" most of my family.

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Registered: 04-10-2010
Wed, 04-14-2010 - 12:43pm

Nini, of course he doesn't



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Registered: 08-01-2006
Wed, 04-14-2010 - 2:42pm
May I ask what made the two of you move to the west coast? Does he try to control your life? Why have you put up with this kind of behavior from him for so long?

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Registered: 05-18-2009
Wed, 04-14-2010 - 6:48pm
What were you in counseling for last year? Were those issues resolved?
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Registered: 10-18-2001
Wed, 04-14-2010 - 7:32pm

What was the counselling about?

Honestly, if the two of you irritate each other enough to have to see a counsellor to sort things out, how do you expect him to deal with your friends?

Your friends aren't the ones dating your b/f so they have no real obligation to "smooth things over" or be polite or like him if he irritates them. They're not going to p*ssy-foot around him and he isn't going to hold back dealing with them either.

I can understand a b/f having issue with one or two of your friends but if he doesn't like ANY of them? Are you sure that YOU really like him?