Why does he keep flogging me?

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-03-2007
Why does he keep flogging me?
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Fri, 07-08-2011 - 12:31pm
I had thought a previous love interest was trying to rekindle an old flame. We would talk back and forth, email and he would invite me to hangout with him and our mutual friends. When all go out together i catch him looking at me and when ever i pass in front of him je touches the small of my back. One night he called me and I shared with him a hardship of mine and he opened up to me as well. He invited me to go camping with all of our friends this summer. I thought things would progress into us getting back together. I was wrong. I found out that he has a girlfriend and has been with her since we had broke up. I'm a fog of emotions. Confusion, humiliation, devastation. Part of me feels that I should break contact with him. But I've done this before and then he'll find me. And i take the bait because i still have feelings for him. If he's moved on with his life, and has no interest in me in that way anymore, why won't he just let me go?
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-06-2008
Fri, 07-08-2011 - 6:25pm

he keeps contacting you because you let him.....tell him how you feel about him and if hes not interested then you need to tell him to leave you alone....and ignore all contact block do whatever it takes and dont talk to him...