why is everything my fault ?

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-14-2003
why is everything my fault ?
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Sat, 09-20-2003 - 2:26pm
just curious iam 25 been married for 2 and a half yrs and my hubby and i like every relationship have our ups and downs but the problem is he is always faulting me for the stuff in our marriage and blames me for all the marital problems we have never cheated on each other nor ever had affairs the problems include money ,sex,typical everyday stuff and this is my first marriage this is his second ,i dont have an allowence i stay at home with our 1 and 1 half yr old daughter he works 2 jobs he stresses me out cause i feel that i dont do enough in this marriage he makes me feel as if iam the one who has all the problems and he wont do anything to solve our issues we have been to couseling for 2 yrs it didnt go well needless to stay it takes two to make a marriage work we just bought a new house and ive been stressed to the max thinking he will eventally leave me if i cant do more in the marriage for him my biggest beef is the sex it sucks hes not passionate or romantic at all and i never feel satisified i talked to him about this but he says hes never at fault and iam the one with the overemotional irranionalized problems i feel like he does this to control me daily how can i stop the insantiy and work on myself and save this marriage or should i just give up is it useless thanks for the info
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-26-2003
Sat, 09-20-2003 - 4:56pm
Isn't this the same question you posted a few days back, but never responded to any of the advice?

http://messageboards.ivillage.com/n/mb/message.asp?webtag=iv-rlunderstand&msg=7828.1&ctx=128

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