Why has he done this??

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Registered: 08-09-2010
Why has he done this??
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Tue, 08-10-2010 - 9:55am

Ok, I don't get this at all.. it is a bit of read.. so here we go.


I am Sara, and I live with Kevin.

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Registered: 10-03-2007
Tue, 08-10-2010 - 10:43am

For crying out loud,you are whining for something that is so very clear!
He doesnt want a relationship with you.All you need to do is move out to your own place.Living together has showed him that you are not the one for him,simple as that.

There are plenty of red flags here and I wont go into that but gosh,you are old enough to get it.

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Registered: 08-09-2010
Tue, 08-10-2010 - 11:05am

Easy enough for you to say.

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Registered: 10-03-2007
Tue, 08-10-2010 - 11:21am

"Easy enough for you to say." Yeah.On the info you provided in the first post,thats what I would stick to.If you want something different,give complete info.
That said, why did YOU buy the home together so early on in the relationship??I am not talking what he did or said.Its about YOU.You trusted him etc. is not a logic answer.Maybe he just wanted someone to put money with to buy a house and his purpose is solved? Who knows?

Thats what it boils down to me.He used you to buy the house and is doing the rest to keep you around to make dinner etc.All ok for him.YOU want a relationship but he doesnt.You probably got scammed!!

No need to get angry at me.Get an attorney asap and get it sorted out.

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Tue, 08-10-2010 - 1:12pm

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Registered: 08-09-2010
Tue, 08-10-2010 - 3:34pm

We didn't buy the house.

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Registered: 08-09-2010
Tue, 08-10-2010 - 3:39pm

Hi, we are renting the house we didn't buy it.

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Registered: 08-01-2006
Tue, 08-10-2010 - 4:01pm

Wow, he went with a woman for 14 years, not married, she cheated on him numerous times and he didn't leave sooner.. Oh well. It was his life.


Anyway, I am sorry that you are having to go through this. But seriously, being together only six months before deciding to move in together probably wasn't a good thing. Whose idea was that?


Personally, and this is just my opinion, maybe he should check out some counseling. It's not really as bad as it sounds. If he finds the right person, that he can be completely open and honest with, it may help.



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Registered: 06-22-2006
Tue, 08-10-2010 - 5:16pm

It sounds like you have the partnership aspect of the relationship down pat, but it's just the sex aspect that's missing?

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Tue, 08-10-2010 - 5:43pm

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Registered: 02-14-2007
Tue, 08-10-2010 - 7:05pm

You certainly have gotten enough advise and opinions so I won't go there - what just really caught my eye is that he has never been married - THAT could be a potential red flag.


Good luck.

Denise

Denise

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