Why is he making this complicated?
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|Mon, 09-17-2012 - 8:02pm|
I met a nice guy at a party months ago and we really hit it off . We met up gain at the park and I could tell we were both having fun. After a few weeks I could tell he was really into me and I felt like I was falling for my best friend. He never asked for sex or even insinuated it. He seemed happy just kissing me and I was too. I spent the night one night (no sex) and the next morning he asked me to be his girlfriend and even though I knew he was going into the army soon I said yes. Another few weeks went by and it was going great. One day he called and said his family would be on vacation the next week so he would have the house to himself so he invited me to sleepover. He didn't mention sex but I was ready. We were supposed to have a date before hand and we planned this a week ahead of time but the day of, he said he had to cancel because he was hanging out with a friend. He doesn't answer his phone for a week and denies my request on Facebook that I was in a relationship with him, He never showed any signs of disinterest or gave me any reason to thing he didn't like me anymore. I finally get a hold of him and he asks me to hangout at his place. We got into a make out session like usual and move into the bedroom. After a few minutes he pushes me away and says he has to finish some chores, and tells me to leave. As I'm leaving I ask him what I am to him and he says were just friends even though we both met each others parents and friends, had a sleepover, make out all the time and invited me to one of his family bar-b-ques. And leans in to kiss me but I walk away and leave. I get rid of all traces of him in my life. He calls me 2 months later and asks to hangout. I give him one more chance and are currently doing so. He still pushes me away when we get into it and tells me to leave even though he says he wants it. Where not in a official relationship so I don't know what we are, I have no idea what he's thinking and he wont say anything about how he feels but just like before he seems excited to hangout with me and is willing to come over to my place even though he doesn't have a car. He puts the effort in and respects me but he wont commit or tell me anything. What the heck is going on!