Why won't he ask me OUT??

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Registered: 04-14-2008
Why won't he ask me OUT??
Mon, 08-09-2010 - 3:53pm
There is this guy i know....i go to his place of work all the time, we have a mutual friend. Lately he's been telling this mutual friend how i really have been looking good lately. I guess he's been trying to get more information about me. this has been going on for about a month now. When i see him he flirts with me,
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Registered: 01-04-2006
Mon, 08-09-2010 - 6:56pm

Good question.
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Registered: 03-08-2004
Mon, 08-09-2010 - 8:59pm

Maybe he's just a flirt and doesn't want anything more.

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Registered: 08-01-2006
Mon, 08-09-2010 - 9:08pm
Well, there could be a number of reasons. Maybe he's shy, could not be interested in you that way, maybe he's just a player, etc.. I could probably go on and on, but it would all just be speculation as I have no idea what his thoughts are. So, with that being said, I agree with the other two posters. If you're that interested, why don't you ask him out? It could be a simple lunch, that way it's only for about an hour, or a cup of coffee after work.

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Registered: 11-13-2009
Tue, 08-10-2010 - 1:27am

When i see him he flirts with me,


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Registered: 08-09-2010
Tue, 08-10-2010 - 10:07am

I agree with this one.. run.. and keep going do not turn back.