Work Crush

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Registered: 06-20-2006
Work Crush
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Thu, 03-11-2010 - 6:06pm

Hi all,


Im writing about a guy who works on my floor that im starting to develop a crush for. I am attracted to him and hes really nice and has a good personality. So far I just know him from work lol. He's really into his work and dont catch him looking at me much I could understand we are at work not at a club. But he started bothering me over little things when I used to by his area to get papers from another teams. we started messaging eachother about like 2 weeks ago i think. We joke around alot back and forth sometimes stupid things he'll say when r we going for happy hour but never makes a plan which is weird.

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Registered: 08-01-2006
In reply to: curlybabe23
Thu, 03-11-2010 - 7:53pm
It's not a good idea to try to hook up with someone you work with, and a lot of companies frown on that. But why can't you just be friends? I know it's hard, because you do have a crush on him, but it can be done. Who knows, maybe once you really do get to know him you'll realize he's not your type for a bf.





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Registered: 06-20-2006
In reply to: curlybabe23
Thu, 03-18-2010 - 7:52pm

I agree that we should be friends. My problem is when I speak to someone more I end up liking them more. Especially if its the opposite sex. Today we had a fire drill and we ended up talking as everyone else was on their way up back to work. I told him he's always stuck at his desk hes like i know they always give him too much work. We converse easily with eachother. Im soo confused though I can be friendly but when u like someone u just want to flirt and hang out with them after work. I dunno how to still speak with him and pretend not to like him, Its tough cuz we are on the same floor!. joking around hes like when r we going for happy hr. but not like he actually asked.. I dunno what he thinks about me. he is nice and teases me sometimes but I dunno. I have no choice but just to be friendly cuz we do work together. =) It's awkward!!


Thanks for hearing me out, hear from you guys soon! =)

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Registered: 10-10-2008
In reply to: curlybabe23
Sat, 03-20-2010 - 10:42pm
There are pro's and cons: in the end go for it and take the consequences. Nothing is worse than longing for someone. If it is a go good if it is a busy good. You get it out of your system.
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