Workplace crush- did I push too hard and destroy a possible friendship?

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Registered: 03-02-2012
Workplace crush- did I push too hard and destroy a possible friendship?
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Sat, 03-03-2012 - 2:54am

Complex situation here, sorry it's a long post.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-11-1999

You do damage control by realizing that your are married and have a child in the mix as well. If your marriage is shaky you need to either work

dablacksox


Cynic: a blackguard whose faulty vision sees things as they are, not as they ought to be.---Ambrose Bierce, The Devil's Dictionary.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-28-1999

You gave the guy several hints/messages that you wanted to go out for a beer yet he obviously doesn't want to or he would have followed through, so drop it.

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-25-2011

If you didn't put it in your first sentance that you were in your late 40's -

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-02-2012

I hear what you guys are saying about being married and having a kid, which is why I wrestled with the thing in my mind for some time.