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|Mon, 03-15-2010 - 3:27pm|
My husband of 8 years has been threatening to get a divorce for 1 1/2 years if I didn't do what he wanted or if I wanted to talk about us. He's even gone as far as threatening to kick me out if I don't take orders from him. The last time he mentioned divorce, I said "Let's go then!" We went, not talking all the way to the lawyer's office. We went in and after the lawyer talks with us, husband asks "If one of us changes our minds, then what? Do I get my money back?" Of course the lawyer said no. Husband looks at me and says ~cocky attitude~ "You sure you want to do this?" WTF??? We proceed to fill out papers. Now he keeps throwing this in my face about how I want the divorce because I said YES. He seems to have forgotten about that year and a half of threatening me with divorce. Now he won't talk about anything! If I so much as ask him where we went wrong, what could've made things better....he shuts down and tells me to make up my mind and of course throws this divorce in my face, because I said YES in front of the lawyer. I told him he could have changed things by talking to me, to which he says "What was I supposed to say?" Now, this man has no trouble talking, and when the time came, he did nothing. He acts like this is all my doing. Is this something all men do? I am so frustrated. We have three kids, and I believe divorce should be the last resort. We still live together, the divorce is not final. He refuses to acknowledge anything other than I said YES! Help!!