Your insights, please

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Registered: 08-18-2004
Your insights, please
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Wed, 06-02-2010 - 12:57pm

I met this guy online for the first time.

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-20-2007
Wed, 06-02-2010 - 10:49pm

To be honest and blunt i don't think you have a deal to break as such.


He owes you nothing at this point.


I give the guy credit for being polite enough to let you know that he had a change of plan....


He did say he would only email you if he didn't end up going...he

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Registered: 04-10-2010
Thu, 06-03-2010 - 2:04am

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iVillage Member
Registered: 08-18-2004
Fri, 06-04-2010 - 11:55am

Thank you both for your replies.

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-16-2010
Wed, 06-16-2010 - 9:54pm
But men DO sometimes play hard to get... and I've heard about guys having some three day rule - like don't call a girl immediately the next day after a first date, wait until the 3rd day - and so on. Basically, it's hard to not be impatient when you like someone, but you just have to gain control of that a bit for now while you try to measure how he feels; how much he likes you. So balance it out. If he calls you, great... don't rush, but call him back. If he emails you, email him back. Good luck!