Sister-in-law out of line?

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Registered: 01-22-2010
Sister-in-law out of line?
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Thu, 02-25-2010 - 5:02pm

I'm a 50-something woman

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Registered: 10-16-2002
Fri, 02-26-2010 - 6:20am
Hello mtc123 and welcome. I can understand how you could feel uncomfortable in this situation. Have you talked with her about it? You said you and she were on good terms so maybe she mentioned it only as a 'oh and by the way' sort of thing since she was writing the email to your husband. It would be a shame to let this cause a rift in an otherwise good relationship. Perhaps she wasn't clear on your feelings about going since you had initially said yes. Don't feel like an outsider though. Since you have only known your DH for 6 years, most of the people you will meet in his life have known him way longer. But you are his wife and have a right to your opinions and having your say. If he is a control freak, you need to try and talk with him about that. You two are still like newlyweds, so now is the time to set the tone for your marriage. Good luck to you in both situations.

 




 

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