This might sound mean and harsh but if I were you I will say. DO NOT GET involved with your son or any family for that matter.
After my divorce I was living with my sis and mom and I saw the sicko dynamics that went on with them.
If it were any of my
wow; It def. doesnt sound like a good deal between you and your son. He has already betrayed you once.., Not good.
If I were you and I am not I wouldnt do it.. EVER... I would find other alternatives to the situation and I would exhaust a million other opportunities first and then this deal with your son should be the very last stop. I understand you dont want to be homeless but like they say first exhaust all other options before getting into this with your son.
That is what I would do ... but you have to do what is best for you.
But trust your gut. My gut has not failed me yet . I would advise meditating and praying about this and seeking out counseling . Getting a third party or opinion to help you make decisions is also a good choice. This way you see the pros and
It certainly sounds like a tempting offer, but I would proceed with extreme caution, if at all. I agree that you need to have a lawyer draw up legal documents so you would have the whole agreement in writing, since it is obvious that you do not trust this son.
Don't do it.