What to do?

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-10-2002
What to do?
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Mon, 04-04-2011 - 2:55pm

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-02-2008
Mon, 04-04-2011 - 3:10pm

Hi;

This might sound mean and harsh but if I were you I will say. DO NOT GET involved with your son or any family for that matter.

After my divorce I was living with my sis and mom and I saw the sicko dynamics that went on with them.

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-10-2002
Mon, 04-04-2011 - 6:02pm

If it were any of my

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-02-2008
Tue, 04-05-2011 - 7:14pm

Hi;

wow; It def. doesnt sound like a good deal between you and your son. He has already betrayed you once.., Not good.

If I were you and I am not I wouldnt do it.. EVER... I would find other alternatives to the situation and I would exhaust a million other opportunities first and then this deal with your son should be the very last stop. I understand you dont want to be homeless but like they say first exhaust all other options before getting into this with your son.

That is what I would do ... but you have to do what is best for you.

But trust your gut. My gut has not failed me yet . I would advise meditating and praying about this and seeking out counseling . Getting a third party or opinion to help you make decisions is also a good choice. This way you see the pros and

Community Leader
Registered: 07-25-2000
Sat, 04-09-2011 - 11:04pm

It certainly sounds like a tempting offer, but I would proceed with extreme caution, if at all. I agree that you need to have a lawyer draw up legal documents so you would have the whole agreement in writing, since it is obvious that you do not trust this son.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-16-2010
Sun, 04-10-2011 - 8:19pm

Don't do it.