Any ideas??

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Any ideas??
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Sun, 01-24-2010 - 11:32am

Need some ideas or hints. There is this guy I met at a party, yesterday I was with some other friends though. Im 38 and he is 32 yrs old, he is divorced and has one daughter but the daughter does not live with him but he lives on his own.. For some reason since the first time I saw him(before he started drinking for the night) he got my attention. As the night went by since we are in group, we all hang out in group, we all talked, I dance with him one disco song, Of course all the group had been drinking, I do drink but not as much as them and I always know the moment I have to stop drinking, because I hate been dizzy and make fool of myself.


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Tue, 01-26-2010 - 2:06pm

I say just let things play out.

 
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Sun, 01-24-2010 - 3:41pm

All next week I wont go to work beacuse I have 5 days off. DO u think is appropriate to attach the picture the 2 of us were together

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Sun, 01-24-2010 - 1:44pm

If he is interested, then he will probably be calling in the next few days. If he doesn't, I'd try sending him a brief e-mail. I know some women think that if a guy isn't willing to make the effort at the start that you should just forget about him. My feeling is "What have you got to lose?" At the very least, you'll have done something scary and gotten through it which is good for building confidence. Besides, you never know until you try.

I'd just send him a light and brief e-mail. Mention that you enjoyed meeting him at the party the other day. Then, I'd probably ask if he'd be interested in getting together for a cup of coffee sometime. That way he knows it's just a short meeting and you're not expecting too much. Since all you have is his e-mail address, it should be easier to do than speaking to him in person. Good luck.