Any suggestions on what to do here???

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Registered: 04-03-2003
Any suggestions on what to do here???
Wed, 10-29-2003 - 7:30am
What is the best way to subtlely try and tell this guy that I really want there to be more between us? He just moved to another state a few months ago and seems miserable there and I want to be the one to make him happy, even if it is from afar, but I don't want to smother him with emails and calls, I just want to ease into it gradually and maybe he'll realize that I want to be there for him. We've been off and on so much and never got the chance to develop things between us because he was always changing his mind. He's always given me mixed signals-going from friends to more than friends, losing touch, getting back in touch, dating, and now just friends again. I think we deserve a real chance to see if we would work so I can either put it aside and move on or work harder on it, but I don't know if he wants to try. I don't want a long distance relationship, but if he comes back home (which he really wants to do if he can find a job here) I want to be someone he would consider so I want to start laying the groundwork for that.