If you are both ok with it and you have talked about it, I think it's totally fine. However, if you have any lingering doubts, I would have a serious conversation with J. before he goes through with it. It can be reversed, but who wants to go through that hassle?
AJ, enjoying life with C.
You know I've been battling with this issue off an on for the past two years now.
ok thank you all for your honesty... and as i previously stated i am not mad or upset by this.. i dont think it would be the best idea if we did get p/g.