feeling totally bummed

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feeling totally bummed
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Wed, 09-09-2009 - 4:46am
ok, as many of you know...i was in a LTR that ended early this year...
well, i never expected that we would get back together but i just found out he's going to be a dad and it just hurts! we tried ourselves and it just never happened and now i just read a post on his sisters fb page..."Congrats on becoming an Aunt...I am sure your mom is going crazy with excitement. Tell J congrats from me and our family. We are excited for him." i just feel so sad all of a sudden and so alone....i stayed in this darn state/city for him and now i'm the one w/ no family here and no real job prospects anywhere else......this just sucks!!







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Registered: 04-15-2008
Wed, 09-09-2009 - 8:35am

dear sassygirl....


i am so SORRY to hear this... and i know how much it sux to be led to think things were one way when they were another way.

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Registered: 11-01-2005
Wed, 09-09-2009 - 11:55am

Ugh. I'm sorry, Veronica. It is hard to watch a former SO move on and get the things you would like for your own life.

Social networking has made it hard to be blissfully unaware, hasn't it?

Would you consider moving to be closer to family again?

Keep your eyes on the prize. You will get what you want/need -- sometimes it just takes time, and it always takes patience.




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Registered: 02-05-2008
Wed, 09-09-2009 - 3:34pm

Hi Veronica


((((((((((((((((((((HUGS)))))))))))))))))))))))


that is hard when we find out about x's personal stuff.

 
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Thu, 09-10-2009 - 2:46am
wow deb....thanks for sharing your story...i'm sorry that happened to you. at least i have someone to yell at if i want, but i won't because he's not worth my energy. i've had a few downs today but all in all i'm OK :)
i just wonder - is he going to have a baby or did he? i want to know because if he is already a dad then he was cheating on me....and that's disappointing....oh well...it's not like i can go back and change the past. i am ok knowing that i didn't do anything wrong and actually did all i can for our relationship.....his loss!







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Thu, 09-10-2009 - 2:48am

oh yes, i have considered moving. i actually want to go to CO. my mom will move there if i go....now comes the hard part - finding a job! i plan on hiring a professional to do my resume, it's been so long!

it's so hard being patient sometimes!!








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Thu, 09-10-2009 - 2:51am
thanks kristie! i'm doing ok, trying to keep busy!







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Registered: 04-15-2008
Thu, 09-10-2009 - 8:29am

are you SURE you really want to know that kind of info.???


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Registered: 11-01-2005
Thu, 09-10-2009 - 11:06am

What is your field? I can keep an eye out for jobs here in Colorado for you.

Which city would you likely live in?


AJ, enjoying life with C.

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Registered: 02-05-2008
Thu, 09-10-2009 - 12:17pm

keeping busy is definately a good thing to do.

 
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Thu, 09-10-2009 - 12:20pm
i know...may sound crazy - wanting to know - but it's not like we hadn't been trying ourselves.
ya know.....that was yesterday, and today i'm feeling better, sure i'd still like to know but if i don't find out, then oh well. i'm not gonna stress over it :)







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