May I Join?

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-25-2003
May I Join?
Sun, 11-16-2003 - 2:39pm
Hi Ladies! My name is Heather and I live in Southern California. I am soon to be 28 (not tecnically 30 yet) but I have been having a hard time trying to find a board where I feel comefortable. I am currently nearing the end of devorcing my husband of 4 years -relationship of 10- so the 20-something board is a little too young, it's hard to ask advise from a 21 year old :o), and the single life board to filled with angry 30 & 40 year olds who are more prudish than my mother - these same ladies are on the 30 and single board. So I have been lurking here for a bit and think your board is a nice safe and supportive enviornment. I understand if I need to wait 2 more years...but I would be great if you wouldn't mind if I added to the conversation now and then and asked you ladied who are older and porbably wiser for advise! Thanks!


iVillage Member
Registered: 06-09-2003
In reply to: cudllebug
Sun, 11-16-2003 - 9:14pm
Hi Heather!

I don't know if there are any "technical rules" about your age to post here (although I doubt it), but I personally am always happy to "meet" someone new who I can share successes and failures with, get support, get a good laugh, etc:)

My name is Jennifer; I'm 31 years old (see, not much age difference at all!) and live in Arizona. I've been with my hubby for 9 years, the last 4 of which we've been married. While I'm currently in a happy relationship, I was engaged once before to a guy I'd been with for almost 4 years, and that relationship ended pretty badly, so I know first-hand the feelings that can come along with ending a relationship.

I hope you do stick around; hope to hear from you more:)


iVillage Member
Registered: 09-12-2003
In reply to: cudllebug
Mon, 11-17-2003 - 9:42am
I am not 30 yet either, won't be til January, but I think you are right about this board, I have felt very welcome here! =)

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: cudllebug
Wed, 11-19-2003 - 3:37pm

Hi Heather and Welcome!


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