Nagging or Communicating?

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2008
Nagging or Communicating?
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Fri, 01-08-2010 - 3:20pm
So I have this sneaking suspision that D hasn't contact his attorney about the prenup.
 
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-21-2009
Fri, 01-08-2010 - 4:06pm

My "advice" is to wait a couple MORE weeks and then casually ask him how it is going.

But what *I* personally would do? Have a MAJOR discussion ASAP about why he is procrastinating on this and whether it is a sign that he doesn't want to get married, ending with some kind of resolution...either him setting the exact date he's getting this all taken care of, or a breakup. That is because I am very extreme and dramatic and perhaps high-maintenance. If something's bothering me (especially with my SO) I have to get it out in the open.

I don't think what I would do is the "right" answer at all but just being totally honest.

Good luck!!!

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2008
Fri, 01-08-2010 - 5:08pm
I'd like to just ask him about it.
 
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-15-2008
Sat, 01-09-2010 - 8:31am
yea i know how you feel about being deemed a nag... HOWEVER... D. opened the door into this for you both.. AND you deserve to know what is going thru his forgetful mind since it does involve you and your futures together or not...