IS SHE OR IS SHE NOT MY TRUE FRIEND?
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|Sun, 02-22-2004 - 7:54pm|
Everytime I find a girlfriend they end up hurting me. They act like my friend to my face and then try to sleep with my husband behind my back. Or, they talk horribly about me when I am not there. I try to be a good friend. I listen to whatever they have to say and make sure I don't offer advice unless I am asked. I go out of my way now to show support because I do not want an entire life time to pass before finding another woman to share things with. At this point I am thinking maybe I am too nice and that is a new problem in and of itsef. Because of women like the ones I keep meeting, I am beginning to feel like I dont trust women. That just cant be true. But as I sit here the realization hits that I have not had a girl best friend for over 10 years. Everytime I trust a woman I get hurt. So, my questions are:
Am I putting something out there?
Does anyone else deal with this kind of thing and how do you truly know if a woman likes you for you and not because your husband is fine?