What can u say about this?

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Registered: 08-27-2001
What can u say about this?
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Thu, 05-20-2010 - 5:54pm

There is this guy I been exchanging chat messages for more than 1 yr. He lives in another country. To know him who he is he has sent me his pic and I have sent him mine so now we know who we are. The chat conversations we have had so far are normal conversations, (work, friends, every day life, etc) nothing of sex conversations whatsoever. Sometimes he teases me on chat , I think that is nature men when they see beautiful lady, the teasing,

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Thu, 05-20-2010 - 6:38pm
There are a few thoughts that have crossed my
 
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Fri, 05-21-2010 - 3:45am
I also wouldn't do it. It could be fun exchanging photos, but it is not like you know him well and trust him. You don't know what he'll do with the photos! One day it may wreck your relationship or career!
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Registered: 05-22-2003
Fri, 05-21-2010 - 9:09am
I wouldn't do it, just because you have no idea "for real" who this guy is. I know long-distance relationships work. That's not what I'm saying. But sometimes people beat around the bush for a while, then ask for photos in more intimate poses, or worse, completely nude photos. You have no idea what he's going to do with them, so be careful.
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Fri, 05-21-2010 - 11:36am
Omg, how incredibly creepy. Ugh, no way, no how. Don't even think about it. You don't know who this is, and you don't know why he's asking you for semi-pornographic pictures of yourself. He's a total stranger and could be anything from a 15 y old sniggering teen to a 60 y old
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Registered: 02-05-2008
Fri, 05-21-2010 - 12:22pm

Hi Iernie,


Welcome to the board!!

 
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Registered: 08-27-2001
Fri, 05-21-2010 - 12:39pm

I know it is creepy.