Dating... I have a question...

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Dating... I have a question...
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Tue, 07-10-2012 - 12:29pm

First off, Hi there!!!! I am new to this board..just today. I have been trying to figure out where I could obtain some advice, and this looks like a wonderful place to do it. :-)

 

I am 41. A little over a month ago my relationship of 1 1/2 years ended. After a few weeks, I decided I was open to dating again. I ended up meeting a very handsome man, I'll call him D. D is 50 years old. Anyway, we went on a couple of dates & I slept with him. He and I definitly connect, and I do like him, but I am trying to make sure that I don't push or jump into anything. I am not very inclined to see other people, and I think it is partly because I have slept with D. I am wondering - at what point does that conversation happen - where you find out if he is seeing other people? I don't necessarily want to have the conversation just yet because it is certainly too soon, but I do want to figure out how it happens and when it should happen. You know? I haven't truly dated in forever. It seems like I was always in "Instant relationship" which is why, I think, I was never truly happy. 

 

Advice? And thank you!