Hello! new and me!

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Registered: 04-05-2012
Hello! new and me!
Tue, 06-19-2012 - 9:49pm

Hello!  Loren here.


Im 41, will be 42 in Nov! yeah!   I live in Washington state, but am from Florida, yes I miss the sunshine! LOL

I just lost my job so I am looking for work, but I have put out in the Universe that I will have an awesome job before the month is over, and that is going to happen (or i will stomp my foot! lol )

I am techincally marreid. He lives in Texas. We had been seperated for 4 years, then when I lost my job, no money coming in we tried again. I stayed 4 months but left again, so now we are seperated again.  We have filed for divorce twice, but he keeps not going through with it. strange.. but true.

I have been seeing one man for 5 years now.. Moe.  I love him very much.  We are great friends, only togehter, communicate every day with eachother and see eachother as much as possible, but he still says we are not in a relationship. So i figure, what ever he needs to tell himself to get through the day! lol

He is a very good man,  just got royally screwed by his ex. So i am understanding and happy being with just him and knowing he isn't out there looking or hooking up.  On the plus side, he's a great friend and lover, and we found a third to join us now and then that we are both happy with.

I live with two roommates that are a couple. They are great, even tho the house has three women.. four if you include my cat, Gypsy! But she is fixed! lol


Well, I'm going to wander around the boards...


Looking forward to meeting everyone!




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Registered: 12-27-1999
Wed, 09-12-2012 - 11:36pm

Hi and welcome Loren! 

I'm Karen, 44 years young.  I have a dh we have been married for 24 years.  He was recently diagnosed with MS.  We have a son age 19, still lives at home and says he is looking for work but I'm not sure of that.  I have two cats, one of which is in love with me.  My mom calls him my shadow.  He follows me around and waits at the bathroom door until I come out.

I'm familar with the divorce yoyo but we got back together and stayed together.  We can thank couples counselling for that.  It turned out that the I was right about everything.  Everything I said about our marriage was said by the therapist and a lot of the times in the same words I used.  HA!   LOL!  


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Sun, 09-16-2012 - 12:39am

Where in WA state are you? Oh sorry, I'm Sam & live in WA state too (I am a native Wahingtonian) live in Pierce county
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