Over 40 and I don't feel ?

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Registered: 06-27-2005
Over 40 and I don't feel ?
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Fri, 12-20-2013 - 3:16pm

Okay gals fess up, how many over 40's are there and don't feel like you are that hot chick any more? Do you feel like he doesn't have the interest or desire for you he once did?

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Registered: 12-12-2013
Sun, 12-22-2013 - 10:17pm

Congratulations on crossing this important milestone of your life! Age is just a number, you are young until you live an active and dynamic life, setting goals and excitedly achieving them. But yes one should take care of their healthy by regularly working and if possible eat right(some thing which i preach but never do)

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Registered: 12-29-2013
Mon, 12-30-2013 - 7:33pm

I'm 46 and I still feel hot (for my age) until I see  that my ex bf was dating, or screwing at 21 year old. The I don't feel so hot anymore.  I see in my pictures that my faces stating to look older and it sort of freaks me out, but I think of you really try to eat healthy and exercise regularly you can maintain a sexy glow at ay age!

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Registered: 12-12-2013
Wed, 01-01-2014 - 1:04am
@Misdy123, I would suggest that you continue to feel good about yourself, you are indeed hot! Do not form an opinion about yourself based on what your ex bf or for that matter any body did or said. Eating healthy and regular workout is important to be fit, but to be sexy and hot, you need a positive mindset, which is not dependent on any body's opinion.
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Registered: 11-04-2012
Sat, 01-11-2014 - 3:54pm
I never felt I was a hot chick at any point in my life. Now that I am in my mid-50's, I feel better about myself than I ever did. Unfortunately, hubby's interest is not what it used to be, but that is more a result of him getting older too.