Should I be frank with this friend?

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Registered: 03-08-2000
Should I be frank with this friend?
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Wed, 10-05-2011 - 3:07pm

Pl. give me your input. I have known X for 6 years now thru DD's dance classes. We meet only at the dance class but get along great and we help each other in emergencies. Last year we had an Indian festival (this time of the year lots of Indian festivals going like Diwali, Dussera) and I called her to my house for the festivities. I thought she'd reciprocate and have me over at her new house but nothing happened. She always talks about visitors to her house but obviously that does not inlcude me.

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Wed, 10-05-2011 - 8:48pm

So basically, you made a gesture towards friendship and she didn't reciprocate thus in essence, you feel she rejected the gesture and have no desire to anything more than an acquaintance at this point.

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Registered: 05-28-2011
Thu, 10-06-2011 - 3:21am
Hope.I can chime in. I would.tell them point blank.That to me is really rude what they did. Maybe they dont know it.
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Registered: 03-08-2000
Thu, 10-06-2011 - 6:25am
Ok, thank you both. I may actually tell her and not be nice anymore.
Chimi