CL of May-December Relationships
Visit me at That Yank In... and Traveling with That Yank
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For me it been both and I've always been pleased with how things turned out.
Oh yes, certainly, and in both ways.
What I usually ask for is safety - whether I am starting on a trip, negotiating with people, looking into a new job. I ask that if it's good for me, to open the doors and let things happen. If it isn't good for me, to not let it happen even if I am working hard on it and it looks good on paper.
Sometimes it doesn't make any sense though!