I had a wonderful time this weekend!!
Well I'm 28 so I don't consider 36 to be an older gentleman LOL but I get what you mean about maturity. Considering what you have written about your BF in the past... I would be STARVING for a mature man!
Just remember that first impressions are only first impressions. A guy who makes a great first impression may or may not live up to that standard as some time goes by. Still, he is more promising than your current dope-I MEAN BOYFRIEND whoops :)
Sounds like you are looking for a way out of a relationship that doesn't make you feel so great at all. I am sorry about how things are going for you. You deserve to feel special because you are!