Drunken Flirting with Boyfriend's Friend.... Advice Please!
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|Wed, 10-19-2011 - 12:45pm|
The other night my boyfriend and I hooked up with his friend and his brother's friend to go to a football game. We were having a lot of fun, although I had already developed a sort of interest in the BF (brothers friend) prior to this date. We had only met one time before, and for some reason I just found myself intrigued by him... so of COURSE when I heard that he was going with us to the game, I become a bit nervous and also excited. (fyi I have NEVER cheated on my boyfriend in our 5 yr relationahip, and we are moving in together this weekend) We get there and start drinking and by the middle of the game its safe to say I was drunk- and Im sure I was a little flirty- especiallly because we sat next to each other and talked the whole time. On the ride home, I sat in the front with him, and was even more flirty.... at one point I remember rubbing his shoulder with my hand... and I feel so embarressed!!!!!! My boyfriend confronted me on the ride home, saying that the BF apoligized to him when we parked, saying he wasnt doing anything, and that I was flirting with him. When we said that, I started laughing and confirming how ridiculous he was being, and eventually he dropped it. SO- making it even MORE embarressing, I accidentally left my phone in his car, and have to pick it up the next day- when I got there, he was so cool and handed me my phone (fully charged!) and told me to get some sleep.
Bottom line is- I cannot stop thinking about him, and I feel like I may have convinced myself that theres a possibility of him also having interest in me, although there most likely is none.
Help is a must! Should I apoligize to the BF for what happened? or leave it alone? and also- why doesn't my boyfriend get more upset with me? I feel like I should be in the dog house, and in his eyes I am not. Words of wisdom please ...