Guys! and Girls! I need your input...

Hey Y'all

I met a guy on eharmony. He is currently on a contract in Afghan. Over the holidays we talked almost non-stop for 2 weeks. Then we started talking less, mostly cos he was busy. The tempo had picked up again at the base. He would come online, we would talk. He would call, we wud skype. But then he becomes unavailable again, sends offline message after a week that its been really busy. This has been going on for about 2.5 months. I really like this guy, and I was at a crossroads and wanted to know what's going on between us. I didn't get a response, but then about a week later I get a dozen long stemmed red roses from him for valentine's day. I love the roses, and the thought, but I would have preferred talking to him to gifts. I still haven't gotten a chance to talk to him. I miss him more everyday. This prob. sounds ridiculous to like a guy