is he playing games b/c he's interested or is he just not interested

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is he playing games b/c he's interested or is he just not interested
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Thu, 08-30-2012 - 9:43pm

I've posted this elsewhere I just wanted to get more opinions before I do something about it...

Me and this guy are colleagues (supervisors) .. .We flirt.. at least I think it's flirting (eye contact, accidental touches, do little things for the other... Past couple days he's been acting strange... So I walk into work, I see a coworker and I notice my crush nearby so I purposefully go talk to another coworker to see if he will come by me... So he moves closer to the shelf by her so I'd have to walk past him.. (could have been coincidence). I usually have a convo with him when I first get to work, and I didn't (just to see what he would do)... So I walk with the other girl... I kinda don't talk to him until 30 mins later, and he gives me the cold shoulder so I don't even say anything and walk away...

Next thing, I walk into a room and a minute later (not even) he walks in too... I don't say anything so he's casually like "how's it goin?" (again not lookin at me)... So I go "good... why u crabby?" So he kinda smiles and goes "nothing I'm just tired" (my ass he's tired I could hear him talkin just fine w/ everyone else)... Then he said "ppl are also pissin me off"

We tell each other stuff thats work related... stuff that I don't tell others and I think he doesn't either from the way he tells me.. I feel close to him because of this.. If I ask him to do something he will do it... He compliments me and says I'm intelligent.. We could be talking in convo and a couple girls say I'm pretty or look nice today but he never says anything


When I text him about work stuff he NEVER responds back.. He will do what I ask him to do, without complaining.. But I never know if he actually did it.... I asked another employee "hey when you text him about work stuff does he respond back?" and he's like "yeah he does, and he usually responds within a couple minutes!

I've also noticed he stocks the shelves that face my department... He has a clear view of me ... Maybe this is all coincidence... Maybe I'm making it up in my head... 

We still make eye contact...even if we're standing 6 inches apart.. I feel connected with him when we do cuz we'll be so close and we hold each others' gaze. When we first started working together he would respond to my texts and things... 

Couple ppl think he has a thing for me..  Yesterday we were playfully arguing and I was hitting him cuz he was making me mad... Another coworker was like "uhh I'm getting outta here"

He sticks up for me and has taken the blame for me once about something when my boss was upset... He defends me when other managers get upset with me...

Also, when certain male coworkers talk to me, he tells tells them to go do something (stock shelves or go help this customer) ...

One down thing is that he told another superivisor that he thinks a couple of the girls that work there are hot.. Now these girls aren't supervisors they are his employees... And he's not close with them..My friend said not to worry, just cuz he thinks they r hot doesn't mean he doesn't like u . Now I think my crush knows that me and this other supervisor talk... The one that I talk to says he never mentions anything about me. Other people at the store find me attractive but of course not the one that matters to me the most.... at least i don't know... I know what most people say "you won't know until you ask..." But I just wanna know what my chances are if I do approach him?

Thanks! Any help would be appreciated I'm so confused...