I knew he wasn't "the one" when...

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Registered: 06-24-2010
I knew he wasn't "the one" when...
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Thu, 02-23-2012 - 2:10pm

I always see people sharing stories of how they knew their SO was "the one."

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Registered: 06-24-2010
Thu, 02-23-2012 - 2:11pm
I knew he wasn't the one when we had an argument in the car and he went crazy! I mean, driving erratically, screaming, threatening to "wrap this car around a pole" crazy.
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Registered: 06-03-2009
Thu, 02-23-2012 - 9:31pm

Oh lord I have so many of these...

I knew he wasn't the one when he left me stranded at the airport 2 hours from home and I had to scramble to catch Greyhound with all of my luggage.

I knew he wasn't the one when I found out his ex gf still had a key to his house and regularly visited.

I knew he wasn't the one when his family treated me horribly for no reason and he said nothing in my defense.

I knew he wasn't the one when he never showed any interest or support for things that were important to me.

I knew he wasn't the one when he told me that while he liked seeing me he knew one day he and his best girl

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Registered: 06-24-2010
Thu, 02-23-2012 - 9:42pm

Oh my...were any of those done by the same person??

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Registered: 06-03-2009
Fri, 02-24-2012 - 8:14pm
A couple of those were the same guy... geez it took forever for me to learn lol. And then some of those occurred with different guys...again I'm slow to learn lol.
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Registered: 02-27-2012
Mon, 02-27-2012 - 3:11pm

I knew he wasn't "the one" when...he told me he cheats at euchre (a simple card game). Oh hes a college professor.

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Registered: 04-13-2012
Fri, 04-13-2012 - 8:42am

He his 5 year old asked me "how come you and daddy aren't together anymore?"

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Registered: 04-13-2012
Fri, 04-13-2012 - 8:59am

I knew that he wasn't the one when he came home from a business trip and told me that he met a escort at the hotel he was staying at.

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Registered: 01-30-2012

I knew he wasn't the one when his mother told me he'd been having sex with his much younger cousin since she was 14 years old.

I knew he wasn't the one when he took me to an upscale restaurant and blew his nose in the cloth napkin, loud and proud as can be.

I knew he wasn't the one when he pulled out a tube of lube the first time we had sex and kept trying to jam it up my butt.

I knew he wasn't the one when driving home from dinner, he rear-ended the car in front of us then exited our vehicle and attempted to flee the scene on foot. Without me.

I knew he wasn't the one when every time he kissed me in public, he'd look around to make sure everyone was watching.

I knew he wasn't the one when he told me his condo looked the way it did because it was under renovation and a year later it looked exactly the same.

I knew he wasn't the one when he told me he had 3 daughters by two different women. And the sisters were 1 year older and 1 year younger than his other daughter.

I knew he wasn't the one when he called the police on me for yelling at him.

I knew he wasn't the one when he insisted that every woman who disagreed with him was bi-polar. 

Yep, all the same guy. Beware ladies - he lives in south Florida. He's only gotten worse, though he's a little better at disguising it. Reading thru all of that makes me lmao. Thank God I escaped!