Living the same day every day!

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Registered: 07-21-2007
Living the same day every day!
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Tue, 09-28-2010 - 11:07am

Hi,



I don't really know where to begin,but over the last little while I feel like my life is just sitting.As though ever day I wake up and I live the same day as I did the day before. Iam 22 and I see alot of my friends now,getting engaged,going off and getting amazing careers,getting married,having kids,and Iam just sitting.I work in retail and have been for the past 3 or

Hollie

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Registered: 01-23-2010
Tue, 09-28-2010 - 10:18pm

Well Pink, it sounds like you are stuck in a rut.



Anybody, whether they be younger or middle aged, woman or man, single or engaged or married, can feel this way. And it's because you are not meeting your own expectations.



I'm getting the feeling that most of the disatisfaction is coming from you being discontent with your job. You state that you don't

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Registered: 07-21-2007
Wed, 09-29-2010 - 9:48am

Thanks for your response,I feel some relief after reading it because I didn't get a lecture like I was expecting lol

Hollie

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Registered: 01-23-2010
Wed, 09-29-2010 - 1:24pm

Why would I lecture? What you are going through is completely normal... Or do you

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Registered: 09-17-2005
Thu, 09-30-2010 - 6:47am

"Wake up,go to work,come home sit and watch tv with my boyfriend (we live together),go to sleep wake up and do the same thing all over again."

Sounds like you need a hobby, maybe something you and your boyfriend can both enjoy together. The travelling your doing together doesn't satisfy you because it's not adding anything to your daily routine, it's just a short break from your daily routine. So my suggestion is to stop watching TV and start doing something else more interesting and exciting, especially if it's something you can do with your boyfriend. Take a class in something fun, what interests you? Cooking? Rock climbing? Photography?