Need some opinions.Sticky situation....

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Registered: 07-21-2007
Need some opinions.Sticky situation....
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Thu, 10-14-2010 - 9:59am

Hi,

So I find myself in a situation and I would like some opinions. A few weeks ago I was at work,outisde having a cigerette.Well this guy I didin't know approcahed me and started talking to me, saying I was gorgeous and blah blah blah.He asked for my number and I told him,sorry I have a bf.Well when he first approached me said hi and

Hollie

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Registered: 05-18-2009
Thu, 10-14-2010 - 1:24pm

You would have to be REALLY naive to believe that this guy only wants to be friends, or to think that he's actually a "nice guy" if he is willing to circumvent your boundaries and disrespect you.

Stop being nice, tell him to F off and stop answering texts from him. Men like this use your inability to say "no" against you on purpose.

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Registered: 07-21-2007
Fri, 10-15-2010 - 10:17am

Thats very true.And because of my past experience with guys that I actually thought were really my friends,turned out they weren't,I did not give this guy the benefit of the doubt.Especailly once he said "I am pretty awesome" (In reference to himself)Who would wanna even

Hollie

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Registered: 05-18-2009
Fri, 10-15-2010 - 11:29am

It's pretty pathetic that such men exist. I laughed at his "I am awesome" comment :)

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Registered: 07-21-2007
Fri, 10-15-2010 - 4:54pm

omg some of the things he was saying in order to try and convice me to see him "I make friends really easily, I have alot of friends", "Iam the president of "Beat the bar line"

Hollie