Patience is a virtue ??

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Patience is a virtue ??
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Wed, 12-14-2011 - 11:35pm

Hello ladies!

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Thu, 12-15-2011 - 2:37am
Great to see you on the board again, misscasey!! I'm glad I made you feel welcome and that you are supported. Thanks so much!! That means a lot to a CL!! I am going to cry virtual tears:) Seriously, thank you!!

You hit the nail on the head when you said "patience is a virtue!" It is a virtue, but a VERY hard one to grasp. Individuals make it difficult to have patience as well as we ourselves. Being in the early 20s, we want what we think we want to come to pass in the blink of an eye. When it dosen't, we become very frustrated. In regards to your situtaion, NOT being patient can hurt a lot worse than being patient. I wouldn't say cut ties but rather separate on the terms that the two of you are getting to know yourselves better so you can better understand and relate to each other.

True enough, he may be a great guy but until you find "you," it dosen't matter. You got to come to terms with yourself and that way you can FULLY appreciate him because then you will be happy with you!! Take a deep breath and enjoy this time right now. If it is meant to be, it will work out in the end!! :)

Keep us updated!!! :)

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Registered: 10-21-2011
Thu, 12-15-2011 - 9:36pm

Thanks, great advice, will do just that :) Trying to keep the focus on enjoying my time right now which is hard, but should be easy!! I think I'll know when I'm ready when it's hard not to focus on enjoying my time lol.

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Fri, 12-16-2011 - 6:40pm
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Fri, 12-16-2011 - 9:40pm
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Tue, 12-20-2011 - 3:57am
How are things coming along??

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Mon, 12-26-2011 - 8:54pm

Thanks for asking.