should i visit this girl
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|Wed, 07-28-2010 - 11:48pm|
should i visit my ex girlfriend who now lives in another country?
We dated for one year, then she left due to her visa expiring. We’ve stayed in touch and have been talking more recently.
I don’t really believe that a long term relationship could work, but we really don’t have anything else going on in our lives right now. Also, we usually have a great time when we hang out together, and it would be nice to ‘get some’ :-).
It’s just kind of weird because it’s like going from being oceans apart to being together, in a land foreign to me, for a week straight like we were dating again. However, we never actually “broke up” we just figured we both would have moved on after she left, but neither of us have. We were a great couple that was forced to be thousands of miles away because of immigration laws.
A crazy fear I have is that if I do this and we break up after, then every girl I talk to for the rest of my life will expect me to fly to another country for them. My brain says I shouldn't do this but my heart (and yes, of course, my "little brain") tell me to go for it.