So this guy I know...

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Registered: 06-29-2010
So this guy I know...
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Sat, 08-14-2010 - 2:55pm

Okay, this guy I know we've had some conversations before, say hello or goodbye when we see each other or are leaving. He's very social, laid-back type dude. The thing is, I don't know why he does some of the things he does. Like, at work, he'll walk around me while I'm at work a few times. Until finally he'll come over and say hello. I.. don't get why he's acting like this. We've talked before, we're cool right? He's making me nervous because I'm not sure what he's Doing exactly. When he continues to walk over, he always acts as if he's getting something or will stand there.. He has also came over to my register and helped me with bagging or opening up the bags.

I guess he is 'attracted' to me but.. he barely Knows me. How can you say you like someone when you hardly really know them? Yes, we've had conversations, nothing too deep, just about past work experiences, school. Soo yeah. It gets awkward some times.

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Registered: 05-18-2009
Mon, 08-16-2010 - 11:40am

"I guess he is 'attracted' to me but.. he barely Knows me. How can you say you like someone when you hardly really know them?"

When did he say he liked you?

He seems awkward, sure, but when he comes over maybe he's hoping that you will acknowledge him. Do you have any interest in this guy?

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Registered: 06-29-2010
Mon, 08-16-2010 - 4:44pm

I suppose you're right about that quote. And, I don't really know.. I feel "eh" about it. I would be more then happy to be friends but, I'm not sure. Although I do get really nervous when he's around. I'm skeptical about him and scared in general. It's like I'm ambivalent about him.

Yesterday, he told me he would be right back (right after he just got off his break) and when he came back his hair was all nice and everything. Then he asked me when I get off work, I told him 3:30 and he replied that he gets off at 3. (but he ended up getting off work an hour earlier?)

Some of the things he says don't piece together for me.. which makes me want to run. lol.