Three years later I'm questioning whether it's right...
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|Tue, 02-22-2011 - 1:06am|
I've been dating my boyfriend for three years. We met in college and starting dating when I was 19 and actually ended up moving across the country together. Despite the occasional argument our relationship was fine...until we moved in together. I thought the big move was going to be this huge experience that was going to bring us closer together but it seems like it has done the opposite. We moved on a whim without any job prospects or plans, really. I managed to land a pretty decent job at a very cool company and have been meeting so many new people and have been really enjoying our new city. My bf sits at home...all day...watching TV.
He works part time at a shoe store doing stock and barely makes enough money to pay the bills. There have been times where he has owed me over $700 at one time! I've told him over and over again that I can't keep supporting him but he hasnt done much to get another job. He actaully started "donating" sperm to bring in more cash. I dont have any political agenda about it, it's just plain lazy.
Basically, my career and social life is progressing at a much different rate than his is and he'scontent to just be a homebody and not save any money for a future. It's really turned me off bc of the lack of ambition and lack of initiative and lust for life. Our sex life is pretty boring as well.
The thing is: he's not a jerk. He's actually a really sweet and nice guy but I'm finding myself falling out of love with him bc he's so comfortable with his mundane life. I can't decide if I should stay or go. Also, I'm 22 and I sometimes get pretty curious about dating other people.
What do I do??