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|Thu, 08-12-2010 - 6:05pm|
Me and my husband had a long distance relationship before we got married. he was in LA and I was in NY.
He lived in LA for about 5 years before moving back home. that was 1 year ago.
When we were dating (long distance), most of the time when i called him and he was out, he would tell me that he was with R, T, B, L and J.
R: I have met her she is nice chick. she is his best friend. R is very close with M. M is his exgf. M loved him but wished that he was something more so she left him. And he didn't get over it. when we were dating, he had a brief affair with M (we resolved it).
T: T is M's friend. He felt that if things didn't work out between the 2 of us, he would have dated T. i never get to meet her. Before moving back home, T was the last person that he had hanged out with.
B: He always seems to have dinner and drinks with her all the time and mentioned that i should meet her.
L: Is his best friend, a guy who parties and loves going to vegas. they have been to vegas many times. again i never get to meet him.
J: I have met him. Over the phone, whenever my husband parties or heavy drinking it has to be with him.
Whenever i was in LA i didn't get to meet his friends as his friends are also M's friends, he feels that it would be awkward to meet them. Some of his friends are against us dating and hated him for marrying me.
3 months ago I was out of country, he decided to visit LA. He told me he stayed over night with R and hanged out with L.
One night at a party while he was drunk he told me an update about M. Apparently R updated him details about her. Then he told me he had met with T during the trip. Why didn't he mentioned that he hanged out with T too???
We are going to LA on this Sat.i asked him about hanging out with his friends, this is what he said
R: out of town
T: moved to another state
B: actually we are not that close
L: could never contact him
J: actually we are not friends, he is shady.
It was only 3 months ago that he met them... how can they be gone?
I think he was actually doing a whole lot of stupid things behind my back when i was away and fear that people will tell me about it.
What do you think? what should i do?