I need some support

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-24-2006
I need some support
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Tue, 09-25-2007 - 3:09pm

Maybe I need to just vent, not really have a question I suppose.


I can't take it anymore..

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-30-2002
Tue, 09-25-2007 - 10:24pm

Honestly, I don't know where your threshhold of pain is, but mine broke right about when my ex was insulting my kids.


 


"OMG, I got engaged, the world will never be the same!...."


&nbs

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-15-2004
Tue, 09-25-2007 - 11:37pm

What is the worst thing that would happen if you did take all the kids out of the house and left?

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-24-2006
Wed, 09-26-2007 - 9:07am

thanks to both of you.


Alanon isn't an option at the moment but thanks..

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iVillage Member
Registered: 03-25-2003
Wed, 09-26-2007 - 11:22am

Nothing changes, if nothing changes.


When you have had enough, you will know.


I know you hate to think of filing bancruptcy, but, it almost sounds as if you are living emotionally bancrupt.


What is the price of your children and yours peace, sanity and serenity?


Peace,


Rose


iVillage Member
Registered: 04-15-2004
Wed, 09-26-2007 - 11:40am

Please allow me to point something out to you... the hopelessness is that you are trying to control everything- you have become your own god.


There is hope, and there are possible options out there, many of which you are blinded from seeing/are not presenting themselves just yet because you are clinging on by your fingernails trying to do it yourself.

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-18-2003
Wed, 09-26-2007 - 7:58pm

I left my A 3 yrs ago when my DD's were 3 and 8mo.