Hi- Here's my situation.
Welcome to the board silkbunny.
I just wanted to 'pop' in and say how refreshing and appreciated your candor
I second the suggestion of alanon.
Thank you for your experiences with alcohol yourself, your advice about Al-Anon and support.
"OMG, I got engaged, the world will never be the same!...."
I "third" the suggestion for Al-Anon meetings - and coming back and joining this board.
I sit here crying.. not sad tears, but tears pf thanks for the advice that everyone has given me. You are all so full of care and love it's amazing. Thank you all for your support and kind words. I seriously think that I'll check Al-Anon out on Sat. morning. Will they care that I'm not in a relationship with him anymore? We're just friends now.
Thank you all again. Your kind words and advice have lifted a little heaviness off of my heart.
Hugs to each and every one of you.