This past week was very difficult.
My heart goes out to you.
..............and the fact that he drinks himself to absolute stupidity has nothing to do with his situation?
"OMG, I got engaged, the world will never be the same!...."
What is it going to take for you to save yourself and your children?
It is a tragic, no win ride that he has taken you on. You, and your children are the passengers, he is the driver,has the keys and is in total control.