Anyone else here gone through this?

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-31-2006
Anyone else here gone through this?
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Tue, 10-07-2008 - 1:29pm

Hi everyone!

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-01-2003
Tue, 10-07-2008 - 8:04pm

Liz, honey, there are the three "C's" that Al-Anon teaches.


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iVillage Member
Registered: 08-31-2006
Wed, 10-08-2008 - 9:34am

Hi Brenda,


Thank-you so much for responding to my post(s).

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-15-2004
Thu, 10-09-2008 - 9:39am

Welcome, Liz.


I would start by saying that it reallydoes not matter what the specifics of your situation are - we do not need to know the intimate details to understand what you are going through, we have been there too, in some way or another and

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-31-2006
Thu, 10-09-2008 - 10:05am

Hi Mercyblu:


Thank-you for your response!

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-15-2004
Thu, 10-09-2008 - 10:34am

This is where Al-anon can be helpful in identifying your part and what you might do differently.

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-31-2006
Thu, 10-09-2008 - 2:04pm

Thanks once again for

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-15-2004
Thu, 10-09-2008 - 2:36pm

If you go back and re-read your posts in this thread, you may see (like many of us without any recovery) that you are micromanaging pretty much everything about him, including what you anticipate he will think and/or do.