Liz, honey, there are the three "C's" that Al-Anon teaches.
Thank-you so much for responding to my post(s).
I would start by saying that it reallydoes not matter what the specifics of your situation are - we do not need to know the intimate details to understand what you are going through, we have been there too, in some way or another and
Thank-you for your response!
This is where Al-anon can be helpful in identifying your part and what you might do differently.
Thanks once again for
If you go back and re-read your posts in this thread, you may see (like many of us without any recovery) that you are micromanaging pretty much everything about him, including what you anticipate he will think and/or do.