still here

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-24-2006
still here
Wed, 10-08-2008 - 4:54pm

I mainly read now rather than post because I hate to keep venting to all of you.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-01-2003
In reply to: rocket2006
Wed, 10-08-2008 - 6:34pm

Rocket, he will go to jail unless HE can come up with the money.

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-01-2006
In reply to: rocket2006
Wed, 10-08-2008 - 8:22pm

With the money you bring in, can you afford to live in a small apartment? Could you pack up and leave him tomorrow while he's at work and go to a hotel?

Are all of the bills in your name? Can you have that changed?

I have a feeling you could live on your own on your salary. If you take what he is making and factor in all the spending he does, maybe his salary is a wash. I don't know. Only you can do the math on that one.

Do you have a church or charity where you could get clothes and toiletries from?

Just putting that out there for you.

You NEED to move on. Either he will kill you or the stress will. Honestly. I am very familiar with what stress can do to a body. It will make you sick and could kill you. So, please find a way out tomorrow.

Oh, and please keep venting here. When you vent here, we can choose to read or not. So if we are reading, we are NOT tired of hearing it.


iVillage Member
Registered: 09-11-2004
In reply to: rocket2006
Thu, 10-09-2008 - 6:11am

We will always be here for you.

You deserve better.