Last night was another awful evening.
What's the worst?
I may be way out of line here. I don't post all that often but I have read every one of your posts with great interest and anger.
I used to be angry at your dh, but now I am starting to get very angry at you. I have no right to be angry with you but every day you stay you are putting your children in danger, let alone yourself. Plus, you are teaching them that this is normal behavior. This is what they see YOU accepting and will accept it in their relationships, too.
I wish I had a suggestion as to where you should go but I don't have any experience with that. HowEVER, if ANYone treated me or my family like that, you can damn well bet I would find another place to live...at any cost....
Again, I am probably way out of line, but I just felt the need to say it. I am not feeling sorry for you any more. It has always been your choice to stay and you've developed a very large list of excuses not to move out.
Do the next right thing (my not to you might not have been the next right thing from me but maybe it is).
Yes it sounds crazy in that house.
How are things going today?
I agree if you've made your decision then call a womens resource center immediately.
I don't usually say this, but you are deserving this now.
It's good you don't usually say it, because that statement is rude, ignorant, judgemental, and plain wrong.
I agree with you ZZ.
"OMG, I got engaged, the world will never be the same!...."
I hope that everyone who says insensitive statements never, ever have to endure the pain of domestic abuse themselves.