follow up and last night

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Registered: 10-24-2006
follow up and last night
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Thu, 01-29-2009 - 12:35pm

Last night was another awful evening.

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Registered: 04-01-2006
Thu, 01-29-2009 - 6:24pm

What's the worst?

I may be way out of line here. I don't post all that often but I have read every one of your posts with great interest and anger.

I used to be angry at your dh, but now I am starting to get very angry at you. I have no right to be angry with you but every day you stay you are putting your children in danger, let alone yourself. Plus, you are teaching them that this is normal behavior. This is what they see YOU accepting and will accept it in their relationships, too.

I wish I had a suggestion as to where you should go but I don't have any experience with that. HowEVER, if ANYone treated me or my family like that, you can damn well bet I would find another place to live...at any cost....

Again, I am probably way out of line, but I just felt the need to say it. I am not feeling sorry for you any more. It has always been your choice to stay and you've developed a very large list of excuses not to move out.

Do the next right thing (my not to you might not have been the next right thing from me but maybe it is).

Lucky

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Registered: 09-11-2004
Thu, 01-29-2009 - 6:33pm
Please, please be careful. He is out of control.

Bye Cookie
Cookie 12/1994-1/2009


Beth


iVillage Member
Registered: 09-15-2005
Thu, 01-29-2009 - 8:50pm

Yes it sounds crazy in that house.

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-15-2005
Fri, 01-30-2009 - 8:05pm

How are things going today?

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-14-2003
Mon, 02-02-2009 - 9:35pm

Rocket! -


I agree if you've made your decision then call a womens resource center immediately.

                               

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Registered: 01-11-2009
Tue, 02-03-2009 - 6:39am
...if I remember this story correctly, he has a home to go to that he alone owns since the death of his mother...the police will put him out...if you are afraid, file the order, move him out and file for divorce...
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-24-2006
Tue, 02-03-2009 - 10:38am

I don't usually say this, but you are deserving this now.


It's good you don't usually say it, because that statement is rude, ignorant, judgemental, and plain wrong.

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Registered: 06-30-2002
Tue, 02-03-2009 - 11:42am

I agree with you ZZ.


 


"OMG, I got engaged, the world will never be the same!...."


&nbs

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Registered: 12-29-2008
Tue, 02-03-2009 - 12:29pm
I said it because she has been posting here for a while , instead of doing something about it. Im not rude, I just say it how it is..take it or leave it. And someone that puts up with it for that long DOES desrve it..like I said Life it to short to put up with that..now sheesh yourself.
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-29-2008
Tue, 02-03-2009 - 12:32pm

I hope that everyone who says insensitive statements never, ever have to endure the pain of domestic abuse themselves.


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