tired of forgiving

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-28-2009
tired of forgiving
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Sat, 02-28-2009 - 6:39am
My husband started down a rough road about 4 years ago.
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-11-2004
In reply to: rkb980
Sat, 02-28-2009 - 7:15am

Gambling is


iVillage Member
Registered: 02-28-2009
In reply to: rkb980
Sat, 02-28-2009 - 6:43pm

Dear tired of forgiving,


This is my first time to IVillage....seeking someone to talk to to see if I am the only one "tired of forgiving".

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-11-2004
In reply to: rkb980
Sat, 02-28-2009 - 10:13pm

Hello and welcome


I am sorry for the misery he has caused you. The books you mentioned are good ones. Thanks for reminding me!


Please stick around. You are welcome here, and not alone.

Bye Cookie
Cookie 12/1994-1/2009


Beth


iVillage Member
Registered: 10-01-2003
In reply to: rkb980
Sat, 02-28-2009 - 10:16pm

Hi awiserwomannow,


Welcome to the board.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-28-2009
In reply to: rkb980
Sun, 03-01-2009 - 12:59am
Thank you! I am going to look for those books.
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-28-2009
In reply to: rkb980
Sat, 03-14-2009 - 7:44am

Thanks for the message and advice!

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-28-2009
In reply to: rkb980
Sat, 03-14-2009 - 7:55am

I hope you are making some progress with

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-14-2003
In reply to: rkb980
Sun, 03-15-2009 - 10:47am

I've been a grateful member of Al-Anon for the past 17 years.

                               

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-07-2006
In reply to: rkb980
Wed, 04-08-2009 - 1:06am
my pastor says that forgiveness takes one - reconciliation takes two. So ... he has broken your trust and must earn it back. That is just the way it is. You can tell him so. Hold to it. Just as you would your children. We teach people how to treat us ... and if there are no consequences ... they will do it over and over.