dyk you do NOT sound selfish for not wanting to do this
dyk putting every other argument aside, the lawyer in me HATES the idea of your taking on resposibility for a child you do not know, for parents you do not know.
dyk I can think of about a 100 ways these people could try to screw you for being nice
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dyk you do NOT sound selfish for not wanting to do this
dyk putting every other argument aside, the lawyer in me HATES the idea of your taking on resposibility for a child you do not know, for parents you do not know.
dyk I can think of about a 100 ways these people could try to screw you for being nice
dyk don't make me start listing them!
dyk I am curious about why you would even consider doing this
dyk I really don't know?
dyk I just feel bad telling my mom 'no'?
dyk as Aaron always says, "you act like you owe her something when in reality, she owes you."
dyk it drives him nuts that she tries to make me feel guilty about stuff and that I NEVER bring up the past.
DYK my dog just cost us $156?!?!
DYK he chewed through the air
dyk I can think of about a 100 ways these people could try to screw you for being nice
dyk I told my mom something along those lines?
dyk he must really want those rodents in there?
dyk and then the guilt of "I just thought you might want to do something nice for someone who needs some help is all..."
dyk she's the one who wants to do something nice and is basically pawning it off on you
dyk NO is a small but powerful word
dyk the sooner you start saying it the sooner you'll feel better
dyk and the sooner she'll realize she can't guilt you into things anymore
dyk NO is also a control word, so use it to take the control away from her and give it to yourself
Nancy
DYK great deals?
DYK I got the kids new winter coats for this year
DYK hold your ground--don't go for that guilt trip!!
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